BEXLEY TEAM MINISTRY: St Barnabas, Joydens Wood, St James, North Cray, St John’s, Bexley, St Mary’s, Bexley
Updated 1st June 2021
SERVICES AND EVENTS FOR JUNE 2021
SUNDAY 6 June 9.30am Holy Communion
SUNDAY 13 June 9.30am All-Age Worship
SUNDAY 20 June 9.30am Holy Communion 3.00pm Forest Church at St James
SUNDAY 27 June 9.30am Holy Communion 2.30pm Baptism
Wednesday 30 June 10.00am Bexley Team Midweek Communion
There will be music on this link www.stjamesnorthcray.org.uk/welcome/music/ We hope you find the music helpful and inspiring.
We will continue to circulate worship material via email, and also make worship available online, on Zoom, or via a phone-in link on Zoom.
Details are emailed out each week. Please contact the Team Rector or a member of the clergy team to be included on the emailing list or see our website for further information.
Also, do contact any of our clergy team if you are concerned, or if you would simply like a chat, or prayer
"Welcome to St James Church, - the Church of England parish church serving North Cray.
The church building is situated on the North Cray Road on the edge of the beautiful Footscray Meadows. There has been a place of worship on this site for many centuries, although much of the original building was restored in the nineteenth century. The church is well-loved in the North Cray community. For a map of the immediate area, please click here
There is one service each Sunday morning at 9.30am lasting about an hour. This is usually a service of Holy Communion, with hymns, bible readings and a talk which leads us into the sharing of the bread and wine of communion. On the second Sunday of each month there is an All-Age service at 9.30am, suitable for all ages with lively singing and a rather more informal atmosphere.
In August 2018, St James Church, North Cray became part of the Bexley Team partnering with the parish churches of St John's, Bexley, St Mary's, Bexley and St Barnabas, Joydens Wood.
Please do explore our website and visit our church here in North Cray where I know you will be given a warm welcome"
Revd. Ren Harding
To contact the Reverend Ren Harding Tel: 01322 528923.
Parish Safeguarding - Statement
Like all Church of England churches, safeguarding and safer recruitment are paramount. The PCC are committed to ensuring that our church and hall are safe places for all who use them. For more detailed information and guidance click the Parish Safeguarding Handbook or visit https://www.rochester.anglican.org and click on safeguarding. Produced by the National Safeguarding Team, it is a comprehensive guide, summarising the key areas a parish needs to address with regards to safeguarding.
Parish Safeguarding - Past Review
If you are concerned about something you have experienced in a church, now or in the past, or you are worried about another person - perhaps a vulnerable adult or a child – there are people you can talk to and you will be taken seriously. You can contact the Diocese of Rochester’s Safeguarding team on 01634 560 000 or visit their webpage Click to read more
One of the Sacred Spaces created by the congregation at St James
Rev’d Ren writes-
TEAM RECTOR’S LETTER - JUNE 2021
This month, we have ‘commissioned’ a special article from the Team Curate, Rev Matt Hodder, because we wanted you to know about something brilliant that is happening at St James Church.
Since I took overall responsibility for the parish church of St James, I have wanted to do something that reflected the building’s lovely situation at the edge of the Foots Cray Meadows, and the beauty of our churchyard. When Matt was appointed as Team Curate I discovered that he had a background in working in Forest Schools, and so it all came together!
The Forest Church Project enables us to really value the beauty of God’s creation and encourages the next generation to care for it. I want to thank our church council and congregation for giving their backing and support. Rev Ren
"In May 2021 we started a new venture for the Bexley Team Ministry - Forest Church! Held on the third Sunday of each month and based at St James's Church, North Cray, Forest Church is a new and exciting way to worship God in the beautiful surroundings that we have been blessed with. Forest Church originated from the Forest School movement, which in turn came from Scandinavia back in the 1990's. Its premise is very simple; God is present everywhere and one of the places that we often feel most connected with God is outdoors. Forest Church has tried to blend the excitement of exploring God's creation alongside creating a church community in its own right; one which is open to everyone from across the Bexley Team. It's hard to say what a 'typical' Forest Church service looks like. In the two we've done so far we have attempted parachute making, nature bingo, seed planting, creating solar system mobiles (the baby kind not the phone kind!), treasure hunts, making meals for woodland animals and much more. There are two things that you can always guarantee will happen though... we will spend some time outdoors and we will marvel at God's amazing creation. 4 So I encourage you to come along to one of our upcoming services (3pm on 20th June, 18th July, 15th August) and see what it's like. It's suitable for all ages, children AND adults and everyone is most welcome. But don't take my word for it, here's what one of our regulars thinks.... "Forest Church is good fun. The best bit was finding things in nature and making a parachute for an astronaut. It's fun to be outside for church because you can explore, and use magnifying glasses and jump around!" ** (Zach)
Hope to see you there soon!
Rev Matt and the Forest Church Team
Team Rector’s Letter May 2021
1 May is ‘MAYDAY’
What do we understand by that word?
Traditionally, 1 May is celebrated as an ancient spring festival, reaching back to pre-Christian times. In the past, to have survived winter at all was a cause for thanksgiving, and after the hardships of winter to see the rebirth of the created world as the warmth of longer days brought growth. Dances round the may-pole, singing, and cake are usually part of the Mayday festivities.
In 1889, May Day was chosen by socialists as the date for International Workers Day, celebrating the dignity of human work. In some countries it is known as Labour Day. Clearly this is a very different celebration from the traditional May Day.
Finally, the international distress signal is “Mayday” calling for help, for rescue.
So this mayday:
We celebrate the God of creation, in the beauty of nature.
We recognise the God of justice in the dignity of every human being.
We call out to the God of rescue, when we are feeling vulnerable, and lost, helpless and afraid.
Reverend Ren Harding (Team Rector)
contact me at Joydens Wood Vicarage,
6 Tile Kiln Lane, Joydens Wood, Bexley, DA5 2BB
Team Rector’s Letter April 2021
We have been busy getting the church ready to reopen! The doors will be open for Individual Prayer on Good Friday (11am until 1pm) and Easter Communion on Easter Day at 9.30am.
As you can imagine this has meant a very thorough Spring Clean, including the removal of some quite spectacular cobwebs festooning the archways of the church! (Our apologies to the spiders who may have been disturbed by our ministrations.)
While we have been cleaning and tidying and making our preparations to open the building, I have been thinking about the need we all have for some ‘spiritual spring-cleaning’.
What do I mean by that? I mean that, when we take time to pause and reflect, we can discover that over a period of weeks and months, we have begun to accumulate mental and spiritual ‘clutter’. It might be a sense of resentment concerning the words or actions of someone else. It might be a build-up of tension because of a raft of obligations and duties that we have foolishly taken on. It might be a habit of criticism, or of fixating on worries and problems. All these things sap us of joy and dull our ability to see things in their proper perspective.
Now I fully realise that some of you may be struggling with serious illness, financial worries, or griefs of many kinds, and if that is the case, my heart goes out to you. You should not feel guilty. Know that God is alongside you and be gentle with yourself as you find a way through the unavoidable emotional pain of those things. Remember I’m here to help if I can.
Rather, I am talking here about the needless worries that can weigh us down if we allow them to. What I refer to is encapsulated in what is called The Serenity Prayer…
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
I commend it to you as a prayer as you do your own ‘Spiritual Spring Cleaning’ and I wish you a very Happy Easter.
Reverend Ren Harding (Team Rector)
contact me at Joydens Wood Vicarage,
6 Tile Kiln Lane, Joydens Wood, Bexley, DA5 2BB
I am pleased (and slightly shocked!) to have been invited by Bishop James to accept appointment as an Honorary Canon at Rochester Cathedral, one of four others appointed in the present round.Read the full article here
Bexley Womens Aid - We were happy to help out with donations at Christmas
In December we had our usual Toy service where we collected donations for Bexley Womens Aid. It wasn’t our usual service due to Covid restrictions but as usual the people of North Cray came up trumps!
We contacted Womens Aid before the service, and asked if they had any particular requests for the children this year. They asked for chocolate selection boxes and sweets and small toys. The word soon went around and we had many generous donations.
Comment from one of the Residents: “Such kindness and thoughtfulness of strangers to give so much, it has restored my faith in people and made Christmas magical for my children for the first time in years!”
Rev'd. Canon Ren Harding.
A very special day as Revd Ren receives the Honorary Title of Canon
Rochester Cathedral Sunday 6th June 2021,
Click above to see the whole flyer as a PDF - to view and to print!
Bexley Team Ministry - Clergy Contact Details.
Bexley Team Children's Church
This year we want to offer our families a weekly Bexley Team Children's Church.
We invite everyone in our nation to pause, as we reflect on the enormity of this pandemic. Read the Archbishops' letter here
A virtual visit to St James Church .
Revd Ren visited St James, during the first period of lockdown, and recorded this video clip.
“I will be their God, and they will be my people… “.
Rev. Ren's Reflection for Sunday 21st March 2021 Read More
we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him
Rev Ren's Reflection for Sunday 21st February 2021 Read More
My first Beatles record was ‘Do you want to know a secret.’
PERAMBULATING READER - David's Reflection for Sunday 14th February 2021 Read More
.. a bit of History first, so sit up at the back of the class and pay attention!
Rector's news for Sunday 7th February 2021 Read More
David’s reflection on 1 Samuel chapters 1 to 3 for Sunday 17th January 2021
David Stevens, the Lay Reader at St James North Cray, offers us a reflection Read More
A little elf knocked on my front door the other day…
Revd Ren's Reflection for Sunday 20th December 2020 Read More
Within all the changing times.........God is constant. God is with us.
Rev Ren's Reflection for Sunday 6th December 2020 Read More
"Well! we are surely in a time of ‘Disorientation’ now."
Revd. Ren's Reflection for the first Sunday of Advent 2020 Read More
“Being a Christian is like being a pumpkin ........."
Revd. Ren's Reflection for Sunday 1st November 2020 Read More
Revd. Matt Hodder's Reflection for Sunday 25th October 2020
We all need a Simon and a Jude in our lives. Read More
Revd Matt Hodder's Reflection for Sunday 18th October 2020
A thought from the Curate…. Read More
.......give generously to UK organisations like the Foodbank, or Homestart......
Revd Ren's Reflection for Harvest Sunday 11th October 2020 Read More
Revd. Ren's Reflection for Sunday 6th September 2020
Both my grandmothers particularly hated the idea of being in debt Read More
Revd. Ren's Reflection for Sunday August 30th 2020
......whoever loses their life for me will find it. Read More
As Christians, we must never lose sight of the Jewish culture into which Jesus..
Revd. Ren's Reflection for Sunday 2nd August 2020 Read More
Perhaps, like me you felt uncomfortable at the language in our epistle today....
Revd Ren's Reflection for Sunday June 28th 2020 Read More
“I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.”
Rev Ren's Reflection for Sunday 21st June 2020 Read More
.........that list of names – which is like a Roll-call of honour ...
Rev Ren's Reflection for Sunday June 14th 2020 Read More
This week, I invite you to reflect on Archbishop Wilton’s words…
Rev Ren's Reflection for Sunday June 7th. Read More
The truth today is that we are not ‘together in one place...'
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Every house it seems has a picture of rainbow in the window.
Revd Ren's Reflection for Sunday 24th May Read More
On one hand, people in modern western society talk a LOT about............
Revd Ren's Letter - August 2019 Read More
We are justifiably proud in the Bexley/Bexleyheath area about our local hero ...
Revd Ren's letter for September 2019 Read More
In war-films and accounts of military battles the desperate cry of ‘retreat!..
Revd. Ren's letter for October 2019 Read More